tak nak kawan

an event last night made me do this. another new year’s resolution added. to not care/ respond/ unfriend (if necessary) to some ‘friends’. i used to not care. but i’m too old for this kind of crap anymore. i’m no kid who needs 1,000 friends or followers to validate myself. i’m very much happy with my life and would rather use all that wasted energy on loving other friends that i really care about.

wlupun most of it adalah jenis sakit hati sbb takde salam ke apa tetiba ‘eh you nak beli tak insurans/ premium beautiful/ produk2 lain’ tapi among all these ‘friends’ i definitely have to give an award to these 4 most memorable ones:

  • Even though A is a friend on my facebook, never once she bothered to say hi or call me. and if i were to call, in the end we finished my calltime with stories about her. out of the blue, fb messaged me to ask if she can borrow my winter clothes. err, hello! habis tu kau nak aku kejung beku kat sini. come on, tau nak travel, buy your own! (In my defense, this was before I had a job and can only afford 1 winter jacket. But what hurts the most was trying to keep in touch by calling only to have to hear all about her her her and only fb messaging when she needs something from me. If u are indeed a friend of course I’ll u one. I bukannya nak pki winter jacket sampai 3 4 lapis)
  • B fb message me without fail ONLY when she needs to know answers on how to migrate here to the netherlands…for her friend. despite us knowing that she is involved with a guy here. and all of a sudden, tup tap fb messaged me ‘oh, i’m going to do my integration test in malaysia. this part of the exam is so hard. can you give me tips on how to pass this? and how is the exam, bla bla bla’. you have the guts to lie straight to my face*book* when i asked if you were asking it for yourself and now ask me for help. Seriously? Tak tau malu ka. To orang yang berkenaan, sorry fb message anda tidak akan dilayan. I’ve given u enough info and u lying to me dgn selamba badak makes me just plain annoyed and no, I don’t mind if u x nak kawan I bila u smpi sini or nak jaja keburukan I pada kawan2 baru u nanti
  • punyala berapa lama tak bertegur sapa, tetiba bila dapat tau i nak pindah sini, C jumpa i ‘boleh tak i nak pesan baju baptism hantar kat you then you hantar kat i utk aqiqah anak i’. pesan, pesan mulut je pastu the method of payment tak nak cakap. bayar air liur i tak main ok

and the no 1 most memorable event, i have to give it to D. he is my friend’s husband. datang rumah i ada la beberapa kali. party ke, lepak ke. tapi sekali masa jumpa i and harold (yang dijumpa sekali sebelum that meeting) ingat nama harold je. dengan i ‘eh, apa aa nama u’. ewah ewah, datang party i habis ayam aku kau sental. masa party ingat je nama. aku datang dengan laki aku (not my laki yet at that time) kau terus memory loss?

Disclaimer - A, B, C, dan D hanyalah rekaan alfabet semata mata. bukan sebab nama a adalah aminah, b adalah badariah, c adalah che da atau d bukanlah danny